Everyday, infidelity among men in marriages continues increasing all over the world. This issue worries a lot of women whose husbands cheat on them. Some women lose respect, self esteem, sleep and even appetite because of this problem. There are some women who even cry if their husbands cheat on them. It is a high level heart break to women.
The women whose husbands cheat on don’t normally find it easy to endure this act of betrayal. Infidelity among husbands in marriages is so painful and disheartening to women. There are some risks that you can be facing if your husband cheats on you. You can face the risk of separation, divorce or contacting disease. Any of these will be a painful and bad emotional experience.
Some women are responsible for their husbands’ infidelity. Many married women don’t know how to keep their marriages to prevent their husbands from going outside. Men are flexible in nature. If you don’t do your duty very well, your husband would be cheating on you. You must make sure that your husband is contented all round. You must also try to do everything better than outside women so that he will not find any excuse to go and start meeting those women outside your marriage. Those outside women can ruin your marriage if you are not careful. All men whether young or old need little pampering from their wives. You should bear this in mind.
Men have loved women, adored and served them. Men have pampered them too. If you know how to care for your husband, he will go to any length to please you and make you happy. He will never do anything that would break your heart such as cheating on you. Many men cheat on their wives simply because their wives don’t know what to do to care for their men. If you want to learn more about how to care for men, you can seek advice from respected and experienced people so that they can enlighten you more on how you can be caring for your husband and he will never cheat on you. It is very important for every woman to know this.
If you don’t have people who can enlighten you, you can read books that are written on this topic. These books will teach you more on how you can care for your husband and prevent him from cheating on you.
It’s only fitting that you are going to want to have some kind of time frame in mind when it comes to getting back with an ex girlfriend. You think about her and you realize that you want her back so much that it hurts, so naturally you are going to want to reconcile with her as soon as you can. While it can be something that happens quickly, you do want to remind yourself that however long it does take, it is worth it. Trying to expedite the process of winning back an ex girlfriend can lead to making some unfortunate mistakes, so don’t get so hurried to win her back that you end up making it worse.
Here are some tips that are going to help you get your girlfriend back soon:
1. The less time you spend wallowing in depression, the quicker you can get to working on winning her back.
It’s okay to grieve about the break up, it’s okay to take a little bit of time to lament the fact that she is no longer yours. However, you don’t want to end up spending too much time wallowing in depression because that is just going to take away from the time that you could be using to work on winning her back.
2. Owning up to your mistakes in the relationship can also speed things up.
Most women want to know that they are with a guy who is willing to work on himself to make himself a better boyfriend. Showing her that you can own up to any mistakes that you have made is a good way to show her that you are that kind of guy who can improve himself and that is going to make her feel a little more like reconciling might be the right thing to do.
3. Knowing how to make her feel intense attraction is also going to make things move much quicker.
When a woman feels really intense attraction towards a guy, she’ll try to make things work with him no matter what. That’s kind of what you want to make your ex girlfriend feel so that she doesn’t think about the problems you might have had, she will just think about how badly she wants to be with you. If you can make her feel that way, you can get her back pretty quickly. It doesn’t have to be a long and grueling process *if* you can make her feel really intensely attracted to you again.
Remember the sappy line from Jerry McGuire when Renee Zellweger tearfully confesses (as she is looking down at Tom Cruise) “you had me at hello”? In real life, I believe that can actually happen; sometimes, a verbal greeting is not even necessary, because a woman might make a decision about a man within the first two or three seconds of meeting him. That’s right: sometimes before he even opens his mouth to say hello, he is accepted or rejected.
No, this is not about some awesome, guaranteed “secret” a man can learn to get women to fall for them the first time they see him. It’s about “thin-slicing.” For those who wish to know more, please check out Malcolm Gladwell’s excellent book, Blink. (1)
“Thin-slicing” is the act of making a quick, highly sophisticated decision about something or someone at an adaptive unconscious level. We can thin-slice a like or dislike for soft drinks, size up a potential customer in a new car show room or reach an instant conclusion about a date as they walk into a bar.
These decisions can be very accurate. One famous study cited by Gladwell concluded students’ views on the effectiveness and likeability of a college professor only required a two second silent video to reach that determination. Their opinions were eerily similar to students’ views who sat in the professor’s class for an entire semester.(2)
With dating, this process also occurs at an unconscious level. Women begin making snap decisions about a guy’s attractiveness and likeability the second they see them. They may not even be able to explain their reasoning. That is why those first three seconds are so crucial, and if a guy is aware of this phenomenon, he can immediately put his best foot forward in order to elicit the most positive reaction possible.
So a good understanding of body language is essential here. It is not as important to know about hers as much as a man’s self awareness at this point. Personally, I do not perform well in this situation. I fidget and get a little nervous as I am waiting for the first introductions, especially if my date is late.
Consequently, my body language is highly likely to betray me. Overcoming this tendency requires diligence on my part. I have to maintain awareness of how I am sitting, standing, or walking. I must be aware of the position of my shoulders so they do not slump, which is my tendency, or that they become catatonically rigid. I have to remind myself to not fidget around with my hands, and thereby imply nervousness or impatience. Finally, when I see her, I need to flash a bright, sincere smile that does not give away over-anxiousness or imply an impression of deceit.
Many prefer to call a first date a meet and greet, which sounds akin to a job interview. In some respects, this is a good approach. A man would seldom fail to appropriately utilize that decisive first impression when seeking employment. He dresses well and flashes his best smile in greeting. His body language is positive and infused with confidence. He should do likewise when pursuing a woman.
(1) Blink, Malcolm Gladwell, Back Bay Books, 2005, page 23
(2) Blink, page 13
You’ve tried to do everything correctly in your marriage, then she messes things up with a gut-wrenching affair. The physical, mental, and emotional devastation brought upon you because your wife had an affair should not be taken lightly. If you still have love for her, that’s fine, but you may also ponder how best to deal with your negative feelings, since you just found out about your wife’s affair. Should you let out how the poison she brought into your marriage is affecting you, or do you try to make it seem like you aren’t affected as much as you truly are? Let’s get to the bottom of this.
Without further delay, you need to communicate the resentment you are feeling towards her. In other words, your true feelings about the affair. She must see the pain she’s putting you through. Speak to her sternly. Yes, make her realize how much embarrassment she has brought upon you and both families.
- Keep Your Feet On The Ground & Don’t Knuckle Up -
Don’t resort to hitting her, ever. As bad as it is because your wife had an affair, unless the woman has suddenly turned demonic and started unloading a barrage of blows first, there’s no need for you to put a hand on her. There is no valid argument for attacking your wife physically here. I should not have to mention the repercussions of acting this way.
- Have a Stockpile of Verbal Ammo?
Did your wife do stuff that tended to raise eyebrows? The person who your wife had an affair with could be involved. Either way, let her know how you noticed all those things she thought you didn’t, and how strongly you feel against them.
- Some Other Don’ts -
Wherever possible, you should avoid calling your wife by any grossly offensive names that would only serve to worsen the situation. This is not healthy, especially when you have little children living with you. In addition to that, avoid talking about things divorce related.
- Scream, Yell, Cry etc. -
Get in touch with your feelings right now. Don’t try to put on some fake face in this situation to pretend it isn’t bothering you. If you feel like screaming, go ahead and scream, if you’re sad and feel like crying, why should you keep it inside? You’re steamed because your wife had an affair? It’s only natural that you would feel this way at the moment you found out about your wife’s infidelity. Just remember the don’ts mentioned in the above sub-section, and never resort to violent tendencies.
- “My Wife Says She’s Sorry After The Affair” -
She probably wants you to forgive her too, and to trust her once again. Your emotions aren’t an off and on switch. She knew you would be hurt by the affair, so her goal was to keep it from you as long as possible. No doubt, she would’ve had the exact same reaction and maybe worse, if you were having the affair instead of her.
- Emotions as Time Progresses -
The resentment you are feeling towards your wife right now cannot be understated. In time, these painful emotions you are going through will lose their hold over you. It will be a waste of energy to try to hold on to these feelings when they are naturally leaving you. There may be times where the feelings might hit you again spontaneously, in that case, you will have to let them out again.
- Beyond The Initial Phase -
Marriages have improved overtime, after someone’s wife had an affair. You cannot behave the same way as the period where you first found out about your wife’s unfaithfulness, when playing your part in attempting to salvage the marriage. The time it takes to heal depends on the individual. It will not be easy and cannot be rushed. It requires you both to constructively communicate and to reach a high level of understanding that never existed in the first place. Hopefully, when that time comes, you would have learned how to contain your negative emotions, but at this point in the process, just let out how you feel. After that, you can look into getting things back on track.
It’s hard when you come to the realization that the man you were dating, the one that you are not dating any more, might just have been the right guy for you. It’s hard to know that you still have feelings for him, but you are not sure if he still has feelings for you. If you want to be able to get him back, you are going to have to stoke his desire for you, you are going to have to make him feel like he wants you back in his life.
Feeling as though you have been burned in a relationship is a rather unpleasant feeling, isn’t it? When your hopes and dreams get dashed and you even feel like you’ve been played like a fool to a certain extent, it makes you wonder what you did wrong and it can make you become so consumed with wondering what happened that you don’t feel like you can really move on. If you feel like you have been burned in a recent relationship and you want to be able to move on, keep reading because this article might be able to point you in the direction that you are looking for.
Here is some advice that might help you if you want to move on:
1. As much as you want to think about how much it hurts, you can’t do that if you want to move on.
If you truly want to be able to move on from feeling like you’ve gotten burned in a relationship, then you can’t give too much attention to what happened. That can be tricky, because you are probably trying to look for answers as to why it happened like that and if you could have done something differently, but all that is going to do is keep you involved more in the story of being played like a fool and not in the story of being able to move on from that experience.
2. Realize that the problem really lies with the other person.
It’s easy to blame yourself and for a lot of people that does end up being what they do. However, if you have been burned in a recent relationship, it probably had more to do with the other person and not with you. That is something that you might have to keep on reminding yourself of, but it should definitely help you feel better about yourself and when you feel better about yourself, it’s easier to move on from the experience.
3. Social connections can really help you out in a period of time such as this.
Allow yourself to feel isolated and alone during a time like this, and you’ll most likely find that it feels impossible to move on. Give yourself a little support in the form of your social connections and that probably won’t be the case. It might be enticing to want to spend a lot of alone time right now, but that probably isn’t the best thing that you can do.
It’s not easy having a premature ejaculation problem. If you’ve ever said “I need a cure for premature ejaculation,” you’re among millions of men who suffer from the same difficulty. If you feel like you’ve lost control and are completely frustrated you don’t have to give up hope. There is an answer. You can and will change your life by reading this article. Don’t think that you can’t have the sex life you’ve always dreamed of, it is possible and all it takes is following these easy steps.
Once you learn these tricks you’ll have the skills of a pro in your tool belt for the rest of your life. Not only are these tips safe and natural, but you won’t have to spend so many of your hard earned dollars on strange creams and pills with terrible side effects. You can change your life and wow your woman tonight.
- Make sure you masturbate before going out. This one may seem surprising, but not only is it backed by science, it’s immediately effective. Don’t masturbate more often than usual, and don’t stop masturbating all together. The trick is in the timing. Take care of business an hour or so before you plan on getting lucky. This forces your body into the refractory period, which will give you a major upper hand. You will have the advantage because your body won’t be able to reach orgasm as fast. It’s hard wired into your system. Use this to your benefit and avoid premature ejaculation tonight.
- Use a tingling lubricant as a second defense. Tingling lubricant works like magic. This secret weapon not only makes you look like you’ve been thinking about her pleasure, but will also give her an added sensation and help her get to her orgasm faster. Now, it helps you control your premature ejaculation. Tingling lubricant has a numbing agent that makes you feel less sensation. This means you won’t feel everything as intensely and can last longer every time you use it.
- Change positions whenever you need to. Another stealth move that will not only give her intense orgasms and possibly multiple orgasms, but will also make you in control. Here’s the secret: every time you feel like things are getting too hot and steamy, pull out and change positions. Not only will you give her more sensations and stimulation, you get to enjoy a break, cool off and refocus before you arrange yourself into the next position. You can use this trick as often as you need to. Make your sex life not only more adventurous, but you’ll last as long as you want to every time.
- Try using a position that changes your focus from your sex, to pleasing your partner. Okay, this one may seem obvious, but it’s really underused. By using positions, like standing up and having your woman pinned to the wall with her legs wrapped around you, you will give her deeper penetration and spend more of your energy focusing on your balance, rhythm and keeping her up. This redirection of focus will keep your attention off of your sex and will stretch your stamina light years.
Another way to avoid premature ejaculation is to avoid it all together. Here’s what I mean: get her so hot before penetration that she literally explodes when you finally get it in. Women take longer to heat up, so take your time. Start off with lots of heavy petting, using your fingers and plenty of teasing and oral sex. Don’t stop when she does have an orgasm, just keep going. Women can have multiple orgasms, and if you get her to her first orgasm without penetration, by the time you get to sex, she’ll be more sensitive, will come faster, harder and stronger than ever before, and you’ll get to enjoy it.
You now know how to build your stamina in bed the easy way. You’ll never catch yourself saying “I need a cure for premature ejaculation,” again. Use these tips, change your life and give her orgasms she’s only dreamed of tonight.
Any good relationship supposes to end in marriage. Just being in a relationship with a man is not enough. You need to act more. If you love the man who you are in a relationship with, you need to make effort to get him to propose to you so that he can marry you. Marriage is what you benefit from any relationship as a lady. Marriage is what all women dream of no matter how long they have been in any relationship.
If you think your boyfriend will never propose to you, all you need to do is to carefully win the heart of his family members especially his mother. Do things that will make his family members to develop interest in you. This is what many ladies don’t know. It is said that it is the family of men that marry wives.
If the family members of your man like you, they will be the ones that will be persuading their son or brother to make sure that he marries you because they like you and they want you to come into their family.
Another thing you can do to make your man to develop interest in marrying you is to do for him something that he will never forget in his life. This method works a lot for many ladies. So if you want your boyfriend or man to propose marriage to you, you have to use your sense. Don’t just sit and keep waiting for him to do it or else you will lose him for another lady. You are already aware that there are many women out there who are desperately in need of husband.
You may be in a relationship with a man who would never want to get married and you being a woman will not know until he wastes your time and still dumps you at the end. Using some counseling ebooks will help you to know if your man is not willing to propose to you and marry you so that you will know what to do earlier before he wastes your time and still dumps you. The knowledge that you will get from some of these ebooks will enable you to change him and you will be surprised to see him proposing to you as if you used charm on him.
The point is that men normally think about marriage so different from women and no matter how a lady loves her boyfriend; she cannot make a decision to marry him unless the man proposes to the lady.
The issue of premature ejaculation is something that men all over the world are forced to deal with as soon as they become intimate with the one that they care about it and you know exactly what this feels like. You want to impress your girl and you want to give her the best time of her life. You just never seem to be able to make it last long enough and it is terribly frustrating.
So you wonder to yourself, “what can I do to make sex last longer?” This is a question that you are desperate to have answered. You don’t want to feel this way anymore and you want to give her what she is after and that is intense lovemaking that lasts.
In order to make sex last longer, you need to learn these best techniques to stop early ejaculation once and for all and you can do that tonight. Instead of wishing that you were a stallion in the bedroom, it’s time that you made it a reality.
First and foremost, the best technique to stop early ejaculation is to stop it before it even becomes an issue. This means that you need to prevent it rather than treat it in the moment. Then, you have more control and you are able to react better in the situation. It takes the pressure off of your shoulders because you wont’ even have to worry about your performance since everything will be smoothed over before you even have sex.
The first way to make this happen is to take the pressure off and you can do this by giving your girl an orgasm before you have sex. Chances are, your biggest concern is that you can’t last long enough to make her orgasm, well, what if you did it before you had sex? Wouldn’t that feel better and take the pressure off?
Try going down on her with oral sex to get her going well before you have sex. Then, you won’t feel so much pressure and you won’t be thinking about it as much. You will be able to enjoy sex for what it is worth. As an added bonus, when a woman does have an orgasm, she is able to have another orgasm a lot faster and that is great news for you during sex. Her g-spot will be swollen and prime, ready for you to enter her.
Another way to make sure sex lasts longer and stop early ejaculation once and for all is to masturbate before anything even happens. Masturbation is a wonderful technique to take the edge off and it will help you to relieve some stress and tension. Plus, it puts your body into the refractory stage, which inhibits your ability to have an orgasm. So now, it will take you nearly double the time to get aroused and to orgasm and it all happens naturally.
You don’t have to be embarrassed or worry about sex when there are easy and natural ways to combat against PE today.
Whereas every fellow is a unique individual, they actually embrace pretty much the same prerequisites in terms of women. You need to first define what that person is enthusiastic about and what he frowns upon.
You most definitely need to know his tastes and attitudes and the like, in order to charm a guy to fall in love with you. This is the only way that you will be able to define the needed tactic for drawing him to you.
So, let’s uncover the guidelines to impress some body and compel him to fall in love with you.
Be perceptive and considerate
Gentlemen go for ladies who are generous and thoughtful to other individuals. Kindness is definitely an attribute that really draws men to women.
Be neighborly to the folks around you. In order to persuade a guy to fall in love with you, display a charming personality, be humble and be sure to thank individuals who do something for you.
Let’s say, you go out on a date with him, grin and be polite to your waiters when they serve you. Don’t be discourteous or disrespectful to anyone.
Refrain from insulting anybody, it will worry the guy and surely damage your chances of dazzling your fella.
Though beauty typically is not the infinite criterion to entice a guy, I know it can without a doubt, carry a substantial amount of weight. A stunning woman is a sure thing to create a noticeable impact on the guy she takes a shine to.
Yet, a gal should never want to come across as a model. A lady should ideally dress attractively and make an effort to look her best. She will want to be comfortable in her clothes and should really dress in accordance with her body type and age.
Internal appeal is more fascinating than superficial attractiveness. Your unpretentious nature and beliefs are really more inviting to him than your physical appearance.
Self-assurance is something that you definitely can’t do without. Customarily, gents are more fascinated with independent and cool headed females with a sunny presence and pleasant personality.
Make him fall in love with you
Guys favor challenges and feel a real need to pursue girls who come across as bewildering to them.
Definitely remember that guys hate to speak about their prospective aspirations while you are dating. You should not talk about marriage or the future currently.
You shouldn’t let that topic sneak into your conversation and you’ll want to let him realize that you are clearly not interested in marriage at this junction in time.
It will allow him to become very curious about you and he will keep on speculating over what’s going on in your mind.
If you go along with these guidelines to bewitch a man and invoke him to fall in love with you, you are likely to draw guys like a magnet.
Your man is not going to merely be attracted to you, he is going to cherish you and be more than willing to commit to you.